Damnit. I found the site, I thought I might be able to find it if I googled "liz phair track lists" because I remembered that the site basically had details of every performance she's ever given. It looks different and stuff and has been recently updated, but sadly it STILL says the same thing it did a couple of years ago.
"(Due to security issues, and a lack of time, this project is on hold.)
I collect live shows, and I would like to share some of this music that has so generously been shared with me. I do not know the official stance of Liz as far as trading goes, but I do know that during one show, when asked, she stated that there should be some kind of "history." So with that in mind, in the future, I will serving up live shows."

Actually it describes what they've done, which is to update the site from 600+ linked pages of set lists to a database, but the copyright on the page only goes between 2003-2005 sadly. I guess things have been quiet for this guy/girl as they have been for Liz? Actually the last update is in mid-2006
http://bliss.its-official.com/